How to Be Successful in Life: Real Advice for the Young Generation

“How can I be successful in life?”

That question echoed in my mind throughout my childhood. It’s the reason I wrote this article—to speak directly to young people who are navigating today’s uncertain and often overwhelming world.

Growing up wasn’t easy for me. Just like many of you, I faced countless challenges. But at some point, I knew I had to take control and change the direction of my life. And so, I did. I shifted my mindset and committed myself to becoming better, not just for me—but for my future family and community.

Here are a few life lessons I’ve learned along the way. They aren’t perfect, and they’re definitely not the only ones out there—but they’re real. And they come from someone who has walked the path and wants to see you win.

1. Study Hard—Education Is Your First Investment

We grew up poor. My parents didn’t have stable 9-to-5 jobs. Our family income came from a small sari-sari store, and money was always tight. But one thing my mother used to say still sticks with me:

“The only inheritance I can give you is your education.”

And she meant it. Despite our circumstances, all five of us siblings finished college. Not because we had money—but because we had grit. That’s why I encourage you: study hard, give it your best, and fight for your future.

Success begins with finding your “why.” When your reason is bigger than your excuses, you’ll stop at nothing to reach your goals.

2. Choose Your Life Partner Wisely

I’ll be honest—my wife and I are far from perfect. We had intense fights during the early years of our marriage. But I’m grateful I chose someone who’s more than just a partner—she’s my best friend.

The right partner makes all the difference. A good wife (or husband) supports your dreams, shares your values, and walks beside you in the highs and lows. I met my wife in a discipleship group at CCF (Christ’s Commission Fellowship). She served with special needs kids in Sunday school—her heart for others inspired me.

Look for a partner who:

Encourages you to grow spiritually and emotionally

Believes in your goals

Stands by you even when life gets hard

Marriage isn’t about perfection—it’s about partnership. Choose someone who strengthens your character, not just your comfort.

3. Surround Yourself with Godly Mentors

You can’t do life alone. We all need people who will guide us, challenge us, and call us out when we’re wrong—with love.

Not all advice is good advice. That’s why the Bible warns:

“Bad company corrupts good morals.”

Find mentors who walk with integrity and faith. Mentors who fear God more than they fear popularity. I shared more about this in one of my earlier blogs—feel free to explore it.

Your circle shapes your future. So choose mentors who will lead you in the right direction—people who have been where you want to go.

4. Build Financial Stability Early

Many people think success is only about passion—but let’s be real: passion without provision is a struggle. If you want peace of mind, you need to become financially stable. That means building:

A reliable income stream

An investment plan

A retirement strategy

I’ve written more about this in my other blog posts (linked here). But here’s the short version:

Start with a good job that pays your needs and lets you save for more.

Invest early. Even small amounts grow over time. Compound interest is your best friend.

Plan for retirement. Don’t rely on your kids or luck. Design the life you want after work ends.

Financial freedom gives you options—so plan smart, save consistently, and give generously.

5. Leave a Legacy That Matters

What will people remember about you?

Your legacy isn’t about the money you leave—it’s about the values, memories, and impact you pass on. It’s the way your children live because of what you taught them. It’s the love you gave, the character you showed, the example you left behind.

Your legacy could be:

The children you raise

The business or ministry you built

The people you helped

The life you lived with purpose

Don’t chase fame. Chase faithfulness. Build something that lasts beyond your time here on Earth.

Final Words to the Young Generation

If there’s one thing I want you to take away from this, it’s this:

👉 Be yourself—but be the version God created you to be.

Don’t follow the crowd. The world will tell you to chase temporary things. But true success comes when you follow what God wants for your life.

Be humble. Be hungry. Be hopeful.

And always remember: you were made for more.

💡 Ready to Take the First Step Toward Your Own Success?

Whether you’re just starting your journey or feeling lost in the middle of it, know that you’re not alone. Start small. Stay focused. Surround yourself with the right people. And keep moving forward.

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About the author 

Jack Marbida is a husband to his wife Wene and a father of 2 little boys Isaac and Israel, he is a financial advisor, speaker, and writer who helps families be financially stable and grow their relationships. He works with families to help them reach their goals by teaching them about financial literacy and helping them develop a healthy relationship with money.

He has been featured in Sun Life Financials and others for his work as a financial coach. He is also the founder of Online Advisors Financial Education, which provides free educational content through blogs and videos.

Jack speaks at conferences across the Philippines on topics such as family finances, and personal and professional growth.  

You can contact Jack Marbida through his social media accounts or email him at papajackph@gmail.com.

Cheers!