The Power of Silence and Resilience

I've learnt something far more powerful than what the world tells me to do: sometimes, the best thing you can do is say nothing at all.

Choosing peace over pride shows a modest type of courage. It's not about losing; it's about loving more than you need to be heard. It wasn't just something I read in a lyric or saw on a quotation card for me. In the fires of real-life problems and everyday fights, where stillness, not yelling, became my best weapon, it was made.


The Strength of Silence in a Noisy conversation
We live in a time where opinions spread quicker than facts, and social media has taught us to respond right away. But what if the actual power is to hold back?

“Even fools are thought wise if they keep silent, and discerning if they hold their tongues.” – Proverbs 17:28

This verse revolutionized how I perceived silence—not as weakness, but as wisdom. When emotions are strong and tensions are high, it could seem good to react swiftly, but what about staying calm? That's where the peace starts.


It’s Not About Losing—It’s About Loving
Letting up of the pressure to prove your case doesn't mean giving up your beliefs. It's about keeping the connection safe.

It's about expressing, "I care more about our relationship than about being right today."

"Live in peace with everyone, if you can." - Romans 12:18

And this type of peace? It isn't simple to get. It is a choice that demands humility, patience, and a long-term perspective on what is truly significant.

My first teacher was resilience.
My path with peace didn’t start with arguments—it started with poverty.

We didn't have much when we were kids. My parents worked hard all the time, yet sometimes it still wasn't enough. I recall selling candy on the street to make ends meet. I worked while other kids played after school. Some nights I went to bed fatigued and sore, not just in my body but also in my emotions.

But here's the thing: those tough times made me stronger in a quiet way.
They showed me that serenity isn't something you wait for; it's something you make. One choice at a time, one moment at a time.

Allowing Actions Talk More Than Arguments

You don't have to fight all the time to show that you are worth something.
You just have to live it.

      "A soft answer calms anger, but a harsh word makes it worse." 

 – Proverbs 15:1

There were instances when people underestimated me, rejected me, even criticized me. But instead of yelling back, I worked harder. I was there. I stayed constant.
A life well lived is the loudest witness.

Peace Is a Gift That Should Be Passed Down

I carry those lessons with me every day now that I'm a mom. I teach my kids not only how to speak with confidence, but also when to be brave and hold back. I want children to know that peace is strong. That stillness, when it comes from courage and self-control, can speak more than any argument ever could.

Our world is shattered. But we don't have to add to the cacophony.
We can pick a better approach. A less noisy way. A more caring manner.

The Call to Rise Above
“Blessed is the one who endures trials, for having passed the test, that individual shall obtain the crown of life.” – James 1:12

If you’re in a season where you feel invisible, unheard, or misunderstood—don’t let that disturb you.
Keep showing up. Keep choosing grace. Keep choosing peace.

And when you feel like you need to fight back, make your point, or have the final word, stop. Take a breath. And don't forget: your strength isn't in what you say, but in how you love.

💬 Let’s Reflect Together
Who in your life deserves more understanding than punishment?

When was the last time you put your pride aside and chose peace?

What kind of legacy do you want to leave behind for your kids, your friends, and your community?

If this message made you feel something, don't keep it to yourself. Get in touch. Let's tell each other tales. Let's start a movement of strong quiet and radical peace.



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Jack Marbida is my husband. Dad. Speaker. Advocate for Money.
Founder, Online Advisors Financial Education: Helping people get stronger in their faith, family, and money.

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• Who in your life needs more understanding than correction?

• When was the last time you chose peace over pride?

• What legacy do you want to leave—for your children, your friends, your community?

If this message stirred something in you, don’t let it stay quiet.
📩 Reach out. Let’s share stories. Let’s build a movement of resilient silence and radical peace.

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📢 Call to Action: Let Peace Be Your Legacy

If this spoke to you, I invite you to share it with someone who’s in a season of struggle.
Be the reminder they need—that their strength is not in their argument, but in their peace.