Why Relationships Are so Fragile?

There are times in life when we hear or see things that really hit home, reminding us of how fragile and lovely certain things really are. A buddy recently shared a simple phrase that remained with me:


"To be honest, this picture is too frail. It's easy to break this if you don't take care of it. There are several things that might ruin this. There is only one who will give up, and it will be over. Both need to help each other.


It sounds like a fleeting notion at first. But the more I thought about it, the more I understood how well it represents relationships. Relationships are like a delicate picture, whether they be with family, friends, or love partners. It might all fall apart with one mistake, one thoughtless phrase, or one broken promise. Even the most beautiful connection might fall apart if both parties don't care and are committed.


The Triangle Relationship: Faith as the Anchor
The "Triangle Relationship" is something we talked about again at a recent retreat. Imagine a triangle with God at the top and two people at the lower corners. As people get closer to God, they also get closer to one other.


This picture has been with me ever since. This triangle reminds us where our actual strength comes from in a world full of stress, diversions, and emotional distance. Relationships aren't just about love; they're about faith-based love, where God is the ongoing source of patience, grace, and forgiveness.


"Siya 'yung 'di nang-iiwan. He was the one who always told the family to forgive, love, and be humble. Because He was the first. He was the first to love, forgive, and be humble.


There are no conditions on God's love. He doesn't give up when things become tough; he pushes through. And that's the type of love we should show in our relationships.


Why being responsible is just as important as love
But let's be honest: love and faith aren't always enough. We frequently forget that accountability is an important part of partnerships. It's simple to say "I love you" or "I forgive you," but it's tougher to admit when we've done something wrong.


"Those people need to be held accountable all the time."

Being responsible involves turning up even when it's hard. It involves being humble enough to confess, "I was wrong," and brave enough to ask, "What can I do to make it right?" In a society where many individuals leave at the first sight of trouble, being responsible is an act of love.


When problems come up—and they will—we're reminded that "Magkaproblema man, laging walang iwanan." No going away. Don't point fingers. Two individuals who love each other, are honest with each other, and put God at the center of their lives.



5 Easy yet Effective Ways to Keep Your Relationship Safe
If you're dating, married, or dealing with family issues, here are some practical strategies to make your relationship stronger and show Christ-like love:


1. Make honest communication a top priority

Talk before things get out of hand. Speak up, but do it with love. Don't talk when they are talking. Ask questions to learn more.


2. Actually forgive someone

More than just saying "okay," forgiveness is. Letting go of anger and faith that healing is achievable with God's aid.


3. Be humble

It's more essential to be loving than to be correct. Say you're sorry. Take responsibility for your role. That one small thing may make even the toughest hearts melt.


4. Spend quality time on purpose

Stop using your phone. Be there for each other. Spending time together, whether it's via prayer, conversation, or just sitting together, creates a strong bond.


5. Pray Together

There is no stronger thing than praying together. Pray to God for strength, patience, and wisdom. Every day, ask Him to be a part of your relationship.


A Personal Call to Action

Yes, relationships are vulnerable, but they are also precious. If you've ever thought about quitting up, or if you're feeling the strain of a relationship right now, I want you to think about the triangle. Get closer to God. Let Him lead you back to each other.


You don't need a flawless relationship; you simply need one founded on trust, love, forgiveness, and a promise to never give up.


If this message touched you, please share it with someone you care about. A tiny reminder might sometimes bring back hope.


✨ Let's keep love going.

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